Regrets of a Seasoned Guitarist: Lessons Learned Over Decades

If you are a seasoned guitarist, it's quite common to reflect on your journey and regret certain decisions that were not the best for your growth as a player. Here, we delve into the common regrets of veteran guitarists, understanding that each regret can teach a valuable lesson.

Learning Music Theory Later

Regret 1: Not Learning to Read Music and Understand Theory Early

Many seasoned guitarists have wished that they had learned to read music and understand music theory earlier in their careers. As a seasoned player, you might have realized that it would have made life easier, providing a deeper understanding of chord progressions, music composition, and improvisation techniques.

For example, one seasoned guitarist mentions, 'I regret not learning to read music and understand theory until a few years after having played. Would have made life easier.' This regret underscores the importance of understanding the theoretical aspects of music, which can enhance your performance and creativity on the guitar.

Not Having a Teacher

Regret 2: Never Finding a Music Teacher

Another significant regret among seasoned guitarists is not having the guidance of a music teacher. Self-taught players often find themselves facing challenges that a teacher could have helped them overcome. For instance, one guitarist shared, 'I regret that I never found a teacher.' This regret highlights the potential benefits of professional instruction, which can provide personalized guidance and accelerate your learning process.

Mismanaged Playing Time

Regret 3: Unpredictable Playing Schedule

Regret 4: Lack of Social Engagement in the Guitar Community

Regret 3: The Time Spent Not Playing Guitar

Many guitarists struggle with inconsistent playing habits, leading to periods of time when their instrument collects dust. A seasoned guitarist candidly expressed, 'My biggest regret is the time I spent NOT playing my guitar. I go through ups and downs when I play it like crazy for a while then let it draw dust.' This regret emphasizes the importance of maintaining a consistent practice schedule to stay in tune and improve your skills progressively.

Regret 4: Isolating from the Guitar Community

Regret 4: Lack of Engagement with Other Players

Another major regret many guitarists share is not spending more time with other players. One seasoned guitarist mentioned, 'I should have hung out with other players but I kind of a loner so..' Engaging with other guitarists can provide opportunities for collaboration, feedback, and support, which can enhance your playing and growth as a musician.

Not Enough Performance Opportunities

Regret 5: Not Enough Performance Experience

Regret 5: Lack of Performance Opportunities

Regret 6: Lack of Chutzpah

A seasoned guitarist expressed, 'The major regret I have from my 5 decades of playing guitar is that I did not play enough and not enough in performance. I wish I had more chutzpah. I have always loved playing music with others and for others. That is my deepest regret that I did not seek more opportunities to play with others.' This regret highlights the importance of stepping out of your comfort zone and seeking performance opportunities, which can significantly enhance your experience and excel in live settings.

Personal Intermissions

Regret 7: Yearlong Hiatius from Playing

For those who take a break from playing, there are also significant regrets. One guitarist admitted, 'I’ve been playing for over 50 years and I play okay. My only regret is that I didn’t work harder to get better.' Another expressed, 'Im not a “seasoned” guitarist but I majorly regret going on a years long hiatus from playing. Although a lot of the muscle memory was there, I definitely needed a little practicing to loosen up my fingers – and just be able to play without totally concentrating on what I'm doing. I regret it because I forgot about 75 of the songs I had memorized! Im sure this is not the answer you wanted like at all but hey its something to read and an answer nonetheless… haha take care!' This regret underscores the importance of consistent practice even during periods of inactivity to maintain your skills.

Improving Gear Management

Regret 8: Selling Guitars

Finally, some guitarists regret selling some of their guitars. One guitarist said, 'I've been playing for over 50 years and I play okay. My only regret is that I didn’t work harder to get better. My regret is that I sold some of my guitars. I now never sell any of my gear at all, even if I no longer use it. I play all my guitars, and they all have different sounds. The actual playing side, I wish I had actually tried and got a proper teacher instead of struggling to teach myself. I think a good teacher can make a great student fantastic.' This regret highlights the importance of carefully managing your guitars and seeking professional guidance to improve their usage and overall skill level.

Conclusion

While every guitarist's journey is unique, there are common regrets that often surface as they reflect on their experiences. Learning from these regrets, whether it be working with a teacher, managing your gear, or seeking more performance opportunities, can help you grow as a guitarist and enhance your overall enjoyment of the art.