Understanding Music Preferences: Why My Older Brother Prefers Blues, Classic Rock, and Folk

Is your older brother a music snob? Does he turn his nose up at anything that isn't blues, classic rock, or folk music? It's a common perception that people who have strong, specific preferences for music styles can be snobs when it comes to others. However, it's important to understand why some people stick to certain genres and how music choices reflect personal taste and values.

The Role of Music Preferences in Self-Expression

Many people view their choice of music as a form of self-expression. This isn’t necessarily negative; rather, it’s a way to communicate one’s personality, background, and cultural identity. Some individuals feel a deep connection to certain types of music, which they may see as a statement about themselves. However, this can sometimes mask underlying insecurities.

Is Your Brother a Snob?

It’s important to differentiate between someone who simply enjoys a certain genre and someone who is dismissive of other styles. If your brother limits himself to playing and listening to music he enjoys and doesn’t criticize or judge others who have different preferences, then that’s perfectly fine. On the other hand, if he disparages music he doesn’t like, he may be a snob.

For instance, if he enjoys jazz, classical music, and folk, and doesn’t judge those who prefer rock, pop, or hip-hop, then there’s no issue. However, if he constantly belittles rap, metal, or other genres, that might be rooted in a need to feel superior or exclusive.

Respecting Personal Preferences

Everyone has their own musical tastes, and that’s perfectly okay. For example, I prefer classical music to pop and rock, but that doesn’t mean I judge others who enjoy those genres. My enjoyment extends to artists like Frank Zappa, Joni Mitchell, Clannad, and Steeleye Span. There’s no reason to stress over what others listen to, as long as it doesn’t interfere with your personal space.

My wife and I even attended a Pennsylvania Ren Fair for the chance to enjoy the music played by bagpipe bands, showing that we don’t limit ourselves to a specific genre. It’s a matter of personal preference and can be purely about enjoyment.

Music Compatibility and Discovering New Genres

My older brother and I are extremely compatible when it comes to music. We both enjoy classic genres like blues, classic rock, and folk, but I also appreciate some country and contemporary musicians like Ed Sheeran, Pink, and Justin Bieber. Now, I devote much of my time to listening to indie artists on YouTube, such as Marc Broussard, Be Good Tanyas, Amos Lee, Chris Stapleton, Elle King, Rising Appalachia, Mandolin Orange, Keiko Nécesario, Aiofe O’Donovan, Jack Savoretti, Beth Hart, and The Light Parade. One of my favorites is The Teskey Brothers.

If your brother hasn’t discovered these artists, he’s likely missing out. However, it’s also important to note that some people might not give new music a fair chance. Sometimes, their preferences stem from familiarity and a sense of comfort with the old.

Harmonic Frequencies and Perceptions of New Music

There’s a popular theory that music was once tuned to 432 Hz, which is considered more harmonic to the human body. In recent years, the industry has shifted to a different frequency, which some argue can make new music seem discordant. This can be why your older brother might be sensitive to the currently popular music that others enjoy.

Even as a young child, I avoided genres that weren’t classical. But over time, I've matured and developed a broader appreciation for various musical styles. While I won’t pretend to be a fan of every contemporary pop artist, I’ve learned to recognize aspects of music that are genuinely well-crafted and enjoyable.

In conclusion, music preferences are deeply personal and can reflect an individual’s background, personality, and values. While it’s acceptable to have specific tastes, it's important to respect others’ choices and recognize that everyone has their own path to enjoyment.